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Conversation of pious life partners ♥

He told his wife:

“Alhamdulilah that I found you my princess”

☺ she asked him:”who guided you to find me?”

“Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala),through my prayer… I always used to make this Duaa: (O Allah grant me the woman You accept to be the wife for a good servant)

☺ “I was waiting for you” said the wife after a moment of silence

☺ “how?” asked the husband smiling

“I always used to make this Duaa in my prayer:(O Allah grant me the man You accept as a good servant)

May Allah grant all the Muslimat husbands whom Allah accepts as good servants, Aameen

Falling in love from an Islamic prospective!

Question: What does Islam say about falling in love? Is that allowed in Islam? If it is yes, how could we show that to the person we love without causing fitnah?

Answer: Islam teaches us to be truthful and realistic. Usually, we love for the sake of Allah and we hate for the sake of Allah. Islam teaches us that a male and female can build up a good relationship founded on marriage.

We do not say love is halal or haram because it is a feeling. Maybe it is not under control. You can judge what is under control. But people who fall in love are in many episodes away from the cleansed and pure atmosphere.

Marriages that are usually good and lasting marriages are those that start at the least affection. That affection grows after marriage and maybe it will grow until the couples continue their companionship at the Jannah.

20 Tips to make your marraige Successful In Sha Allah ♥ :)

1. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
2. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
4. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
5. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
6. Do not compare each other even for tiny things.
7. Surprise your spouse with something new.
8. Spent time as much as you can.
9. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don’t argue. Simply say ‘Sorry’ whether it’s your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say ‘I love you’ to your spouse often.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking.
20. Eat together, be together and pray together”

10 beautiful aspects of an Ideal Muslimah ♥

1. Her Obedience to the Creator

2. Her Haya (Modesty/Shyness)
3. Her Beauty
4. Her Intellect/playfulness
5. Her Truthfulness
6. Her Obedience
7. Her Patience
8. Her Cooking
9. Her Contentment with Rizq: No man likes to have a woman who is always complaining about how less her husband earns or how rich her other friends are. A good Muslimah is the one who thank Allah for what He has blessed her with and she is thankful to her husband for what he provides her with. Abu Hurairah RadhiyAllahu anh reported:

The Prophet Sallallahu alaihiwasallam said, “Richness is not the abundance of wealth, rather it is self-sufficiency.” (Sahih Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
10. Good Manners

 

What we need to teach our daughters…?

Subhaan Allah!!!

We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between,

A man who flatters her and a man who compliments her,

A man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her,

A man who views her as property and a man who views her properly,

A man who lusts after her and man who loves her,

A man who believes he’s a gift to women and a man who believes she’s a gift to him.

And then we need to teach our sons to be that kind of man.