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This is done by backbiting the person who kindles his anger. So every time this person makes him angry, he subdues it by backbiting the person. Through this (the backbiting), he feels he is getting even with the other person.
The cure for this is the advice of the Messenger sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam when a man came to him and said, “Advise me.”
RasulAllah sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, “Laa taqhdab (Do not become angry)!”
2. Wanting to Make or Keep Friends
In order to maintain friends with others, a person indulges in backbiting because he is afraid of losing their friendship. Thus he does not reprimand them when they backbite, but indulges in it with them.
To cure this, he must remember the saying of the Messenger sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam:
“Whoever seeks the pleasure of men by displeasing Allah, Allah will abandon him to the people” (Tirmidhi). Read the rest of this entry