What we need to teach our daughters…?

Subhaan Allah!!!

We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between,

A man who flatters her and a man who compliments her,

A man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her,

A man who views her as property and a man who views her properly,

A man who lusts after her and man who loves her,

A man who believes he’s a gift to women and a man who believes she’s a gift to him.

And then we need to teach our sons to be that kind of man.

About Abdullah

Analytical & Creative. --- I'm not a Sheikh or a scholar, I'm just a regular guy in love with this Deen. Don't praise me for practicing my Deen. But pray for me, for the errors, that you haven't seen.

Posted on April 13, 2012, in Marraige In Islam, Women's Rights In Islam and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. I am making Dua for something to get it back.
    I was with a boy since 4years and suddenly he told em he can’t be with me anymore
    I am praying to ALLAH to grant me him as a my future husband
    Is this Dua okay or I am making sin by asking ALLAH to give him back to?
    Can someone please tell me as soon as possible
    Thank you

    • Dear sis,
      Only Allah knows our goodness (in what & with whom will be our goodness,) we are human we been created. we don’t know what tomorrow will bring and thats why we are supposed to mention in our dua that O’ Allah if this/person (marrying him) is for the goodness of me, my deen and ur satisfaction is there plz make me successful in becoming his life partner/or happening this event (i.e). later on we need to do Istikhara Prayer that would let us know is this person or this trip or this event or what… for my goodness or not. maybe we want something and is not for our goodness and our falah of the deen and this world of us is not on it, but we still want it so then allah knows the best so if not then with lots of dua then our aim will not b achieved. and later on allah will grant us something that we never expected and/or we come to know something about a person or event or place that we didn’t know before…. jzk

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